莫言获得诺贝尔奖时曾说：“每个人从生下来最早接受的就是家庭教育，受到影响最大的也是家庭教育。”
最近，我看到一些有钱有名望的富人，他们都干嘛呢？
霍启刚郭晶晶，身家百亿，带着他们的儿子霍中曦到香港郊区体验农家生活，他们一家三口，头戴帽子，穿着短衣短裤，到田里插秧。面对不会插秧的儿子，霍启刚手把手的指导，5岁的霍中曦非常认真的学习，三个人的身上都沾满了泥巴，但三个人都做得很认真。干完农活，三个人享受了简单的农家乐，霍中曦自己盛饭，显得十分高兴！
李嫣是李亚鹏、王菲之女，可以说是含着金钥匙出生的。可是李亚鹏从李嫣一岁半的时候就带她爬山，并且每一两个月都要去爬一次；李亚鹏还带女儿对自然天气24节气进行科学观测，坚持了七年，风雨无阻，从未断过。每一个节气都去十三陵水库做科学观测，共一百六十多次；在较长的暑假，李亚鹏还会带李嫣回老家叶县。在老家里，李亚鹏会带李嫣做很多事：刷房子、包饺子、写书法、拔杂草、玩漂流竹筏、骑自行车、下围棋等等。李亚鹏说“希望李嫣是一个有爱的人，有才情的人，一个不容易被失败打倒的人。”他在生活中，不迫使孩子坚持做自己不喜欢的事情，也不强加自己的梦想给孩子，让孩子做独一无二的自己！当然，在他们这样精心的陪伴与教育下，他们的孩子想要不优秀都不可能！
不错，现在社会是拼爹妈的时代.但拼的不是爹妈的名节、地位和金钱，拼的是爹妈的教育与陪伴，拼的是父母的用心，拼的是父母的格局，拼的是家庭素养。
昨天，我听一奶奶说，我孙子好可怜，上南京就用了三元五毛钱。我说，这不可怜，上南京，包吃包住，有水喝。本来就可以不用另外花钱的。当然，也有同学另外还花上几百元的，一路上就吃吃喝喝，嘻嘻哈哈。在这些同学当中，有的家庭，经济并不宽裕，可能就是让孩子去南京要交的钱，都是东挪西借的，即使这样，还觉得不能苦了孩子，除了交的钱，还得把一些零花钱！而这些孩子却往往不知道节俭，带了多少就用多少。还有些困难家庭的孩子，为了买手机，平常不吃饭，或者借口学校要交什么钱找家里要。买了手机，就更不用学习了，时时刻刻都惦记着玩手机。
有的孩子，平常在家时，家务活从不沾手。爸爸妈妈觉得，只要你认真学习就行了。殊不知，在家从不干活的孩子，衣来伸手饭来张口，他们在学校学习也往往特别懒散，早上背书的时候，看不到他张口，上课的时候看不到他记笔记，一个问题呈现出来，看不到他思考，作业主要是应付差事，根本不能认真思考，今天的作业要复习哪些知识点，要巩固哪些内容？我们老师看到这样的孩子最着急，觉得他们能学，可他就是动不起来，学不进去。
澳门赌王何鸿燊之子何猷君说：“我每天都会坚持学习。从20岁到29岁期间，从未放过一天假。”他最喜欢的一句话是：当你在睡梦中时，我一直在工作，当你在工作时，我已经付出了双倍于你的努力。我们从许多豪门富二代身上看到了“坚持、努力、刻苦、追求上进”等等。原来我们认为，穷人家的孩子肯吃苦耐劳，有上进心，不怕困难。但不知什么时候，这两类人的品质似乎调换了。越穷的孩子，越吃不了苦，做事缺乏恒心和毅力，拈轻怕重，好吃懒做，游手好闲。常常听到啃老的都是家庭条件并不十分好的。
我们农村的孩子，条件比过去好了不少，但与那些企业家，富豪，明星等相比，应该差了几个层次，可是往往是那些人比我们农村里的人更重视教育，更舍得花时间陪伴孩子，更舍得让孩子吃吃苦！现在的孩子比较懒散，也是我们家长惯出来的！这不仅让我们可能老无所依，更是打乱了生物传承的平衡！值得我们每一个生活在农村里的人的思考！
改变，从现在开始！，······························································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································································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